New Delhi: For a long time, there’s been a ‘fixed formula’ for what to do after a heartbreak, The formula was to take a break, move on, work on yourself and then think or consider a new relationship. But now, Gen Z is changing this formula. A new trend called “Delulu Dating” is going viral on social media.
What is Delulu Dating?
The word “Delulu” comes from “Delusional.” The Delulu Dating believes in giving a relationship a chance, even if everything isn’t perfect. It’s a dating term in which people, despite seeing flaws in the other person, believe that things will improve in the future. Instead of overthinking or planning ahead, people let the relationship flow and deal with problems on the spot.
What is a red flag?
“Red flags” in relationships are signs that could lead to trouble later on, such as repeated neglect, avoidance of commitment, or lack of effort. People are usually careful of these signs, but in Delulu Dating, they’re ignored and hope is maintained.
Why is the Delulu Dating trend increasing?
In today’s dating world, repeated bad experiences have become commonplace. Many people have begun to believe that if they always back off out of fear, they might never start anything new. ‘Delulu Dating’ is rooted in this philosophy, where people view each new relationship as a fresh start and strive to remain positive.
The Delulu Dating dates back to 2014, when the K-pop fan community started with the motto, delulu is the solulu. This formula is not a cup of tea of Millennials, but for Gen Z this is just another term.
What is Delulu Dating’s effect?
The only good thing about this trend is that it allows you to maintain hope. Initially, it may feel good because you start to see the positive side in everything. But later when obvious signs are ignored, the risk of repeated disappointments in the relationship increases.
Is the trend right or wrong?
‘Delulu Dating’ is neither entirely right nor entirely wrong. If you take it simply to stay positive and give relationships a chance, it can be helpful. But if it takes you away from reality and forces you to ignore the wrong things, this trend can become a problem.
‘Delulu Dating’ is a thin line between expectation and reality. There’s nothing wrong with thinking with your heart, but neither is it right to completely shut down your mind.
